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First of, we say props to those who are currently in a long-distance relationship. To start with, relationships are tough then put six hours between the two of you and it gets about ten times harder.  Talking to your boyfriend or girlfriend on the phone every night instead of actually being able to spend time with them can make you feel like there’s no point. It would just be easier if you were to be with someone who lived in the same town as you. It’s one thing to be there for someone emotionally, but relationships are also for physical reasons—to give them a hug when they are upset, to lie in bed with them after a long day, to be able to hang out and do nothing with them to purely enjoy their company.

By now, we should all have learnt voluntarily or by force that love might not be the only driving force that keeps a relationship alive. The only constant thing in life is CHANGE and there are times when a woman might leave their significant other, even if she is still in love with him. To fall in love is a huge task and to cease loving someone is even harder. So why would anyone leave a person, he or she might be in love with?It would have been very easy if the answer to this question is that simple. The reason may vary: sexual incompatibility, emotional unavailability and what not. It’s impossible to decipher.

Just for Inspiration Actress Brenda Mhlongo has been married for 19 years to the love of her life.  Image:  Via Instagram It is nearly two decades since actress Brenda Mhlongo said 'I do' and she is still madly in love with her husband and is grateful that distance made their hearts grow fonder instead of separating them.   Brenda, who lived abroad for more than five years focusing on her career told TshisaLIVE that she was glad the distance didn't ruin her marriage. 

Honestly, some things we hear and want to whip the living daylight out of somebody.   A man who allegedly broke into a home and raped a 25-year-old woman was arrested by police after he fell asleep in the victim’s house. Ijozi is reporting.